How to stop using so much make up on my face?

Hey ever since last year I have been starting to use make up and im only 14. my mom always complains on how foundation and that ruins your skin, she always says that she never wore make up till she was 20 and she had really beautiful skin. And apperently teenagers dont really need it because of all the chemicals. I really want to stop using make up but every morning i always get a temptation to get my make up kip and start putting it on. I use mascara, eyeliner,powder, foundation and more which is to much but i cant stop my self because I think i look nicer with make up and I also use foundation because im tanned and in the past few months it has been freezing and ive gone really pale and i look like a ghost with my black/brown hair. I also have been noticing dark circles under my eyes alot lately and i do sleep alot and i dont get stressed. Is it because of all the make up? can anyone help!? Thanks I will be grateful for anything! :)